Can't stop thinking about random things during sex? Follow these tips

These tips will keep the grocery list and Whatsapp messages out of your mind during sex.

By: Tania Tarafdar | | Published: February 21, 2017 4:50 pm

Sex is of the best ways to de-stress, to burn calories, to relax and stay in the present moment while getting busy. But sometimes, random thoughts can kill the ‘desire’ element of sex. If thoughts like ‘what will I wear for office tomorrow’ or ‘will I be able to meet my friend tonight’ or ‘what do I cook for dinner tonight’ come to your mind and kill your lady boner, keep these few tips in mind to make sex as desirable as ever.

Touch sensually: A conscious sensual touch can also get random thoughts out of your head. So if your mind drifts to the official emails, you have to reply and the dishes you have to do, just run your hands on your partner’s back and neck. You can also gently start massaging his chest with your hands and his thighs with your legs. You can also use your hair to touch his body and spice things up. Here are 10 lessons in sex from the Kamasutra to help you become a better lover

Maintain eye contact: This practice will help you focus and connect with your partner. Making an eye contact activates your brain’s limbic system which has been linked to emotional connection suggests a study published in the journal Men’s Sana Monographs [1]. Maintaining an eye contact will also give you an idea of your partner’s desires, so you can do what he likes and touch him where he likes.

Make some sexy sounds: A deep breath, a slight moan or saying it out loud what is turning you on can help you stay in the present and keep you engaged during sex. You can also talk about your fantasies to your partner or ask them to perform a particular foreplay move you love. Here are 15 places to have sex other than your bedroom.

Reference:
[1] Vaillant, G. E. (2011). The Neuroendocrine System and Stress, Emotions, Thoughts and Feelings. Mens Sana Monographs, 9(1), 113–128. http://doi.org/10.4103/0973-1229.77430.

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Published : February 21, 2017 4:50 pm

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